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training class today at the teacher to learn a lot of psychological knowledge, are presented in which a psychological problem and therapy:
paranoid personality paranoid personality known. their behavior often shows characteristics: extreme The hypersensitivity of insult and injury to heart; stubborn rigid thinking and behavior, sensitive, suspicious, narrow-minded; jealous of others and honors achievement, nervous, jealous, not aggressive argument, that is gloating in the background, or publicly complaining and blaming others; self-righteous, pretentious, overestimate their ability, accustomed to failure and blame others, in work and study often exaggerated; the same time and very low self-esteem, always too much to ask others, but never trust other people's motives and desires that someone malicious; not properly and objectively analyze the situation, a problem easy to start from personal feelings, subjective one-sidedness large; if a family, often suspect that their spouse, infidelity, etc. . hold that human dignity can not live at home, not out with friends, colleagues get along, people had to turn away from him.
paranoid personality features described as:
1. widespread suspicion, often unintentionally by others , non-malicious or even misunderstood as hostile acts friendly or discrimination, or without sufficient basis, doubt will be exploited or hurt, so much vigilance and defense.
2. will be interpreted as inconsistent with things around the actual situation conspiracy jealous of others, tolerance of others can not be wrong road.
6. unrealistically argumentative and hostile, stubborn pursuit of personal not reasonable inconsistent with the objective evidence. making it difficult to change the reasoning or facts to the idea of patients.
symptoms consistent with at least three of these projects, before a diagnosis of paranoid personality disorder.
paranoid personality very few people have self-knowledge, holding their bigotry attitude of denial, so the number and proportion of the community is indeed unknown. l 988, according to Shanghai in adolescent mental health survey data show that the number of personality disorder accounted for the total psychological 5.8% of the number of the actual situation may be more than the ratio. in the investigation also found that patients with paranoid personality disorder were more common in men, and the choleric or a person who is mostly export-oriented.
paranoid personality Disorder psychological treatment should be used mainly to overcome the suspicious sensitive, stubborn, insecurity and self-centered personality defects. mainly the following methods.
1. Cognitive increase method. As the patient does not trust others , sensitive, suspicious, do not accept any good advice, so we must first establish a trust relationship with them, on the basis of mutual trust, exchange of feelings, to their full personality disorder introduced its own nature, characteristics, dangers, and the correct way to make There is a right of their own, objective understanding of, and voluntarily requested to change their personality defects have the desire. This is a further prerequisite for psychological treatment.
2. Dating Training. to encourage them to take the initiative to conduct dating activities, dating learn to trust others, elimination of unease. dating training principles and essentials are:
(1) meet sincere, honest heart to heart. I must take in good faith, positive attitude of utter devotion to friends. to believe that most people are friendly and good, reliable and should not be friends, close friends, especially the existence of prejudice and distrust. must be clear, the purpose of dating is to overcome the psychological paranoia, seek friendship and assistance, exchange of thoughts and feelings, eliminate the psychological barriers .
(2) contacts with close friends try to take the initiative to give all kinds of help. This will help their hearts, get their trust and consolidate the friendship. especially when people are in trouble, should help, trouble threading truth, so as to obtain the trust and strengthen friendship between friends.
(3) attention to friends of the , age, occupation, cultural enrichment, economic level, social status and interests, etc. There are also The so-called paranoid behavior change, patients must first be paranoid personality irrational beliefs of their own. If:
① I can not tolerate other people shred of infidelity.
② There is no good, I just believe in yourself.
② on offensive to others, I must set objectives to be strong p back, let him know I was stronger than he.
④ I can not show tenderness, which does not give people a strong feeling.
now these to transform the concept to remove one of the extreme radical elements.
① I'm not Shuoyibuer kings, others should forgive the occasional infidelity.
② world, good guys and bad guys there, I should believe those who are good.
③ offensive to others, may not be the best right back, and I must first discern whether it is under attack.
④ I can not express true feelings, which in itself is a weakness.
whenever relapse , it should be modified once the rationalization of the concept of meditation as a way to prevent their extreme behavior. sometimes unwittingly demonstrated their extreme behavior, should be re-analyzed after the idea was, I was out of the irrational ideas, and then to transform, to prevent the next repeat.
4. hostility to correct training method. paranoid personality disorder and the surrounding environment and easy on the hostility of others and do not trust, take the following training methods to help overcome the hostility against psychology.
(1) constantly remind myself not caught in the ) only to know how to respect others, to get others to respect the basic truth. those who helped to learn to say thank you so, but does not itch, do not hurt to say
(3) to learn to smile to everyone you know. may start when you not used to, do not natural, but must do so, and try to do a good job.
(4) to be in life learn tolerance and patience. living in the big complex world, conflict is inevitable disputes and conflicts, then have patience and restraint, can not let the anger burn themselves disoriented hostile.
do not teach poor children, Only bad teaching methods. Parents, teachers often worry slow progress because the child, thus rudely to the children or put on the shallow, low level, do not educate children. In fact, as long as the proper way, any child is good; have to do is always find the right method of education. ss
one, play the weak dollars - to children as a way, the child will think that parents need to take care of their concerns. Therefore, parents may wish to occasionally play a weak, to the child for help, you will be surprised to find that children have therefore become a sensible You can also get help from the child a lot. s
Second, the reinforcement count - let the children change from the self-esteem self-confidence. s
James, Ph.D., California everyone. Duobo Lin proposed a rule. until out of low self-esteem, self motivated to become good kid. s
Third, induction of dollars - to help children across the weariness of the quagmire. s
almost every child will be somewhat weary, it is understandable, but not laissez-faire, because such sentiments would hamper the enthusiasm of children to learn, a child's growth bring about unpredictable effects. But to force children to learn not a good idea, this will only deepen the child's aversion, smart approach is to induce the child's interest in learning, self-motivated children to learn. s
IV, indifference count - give children a little self-control. s
child today, mostly children, by the meticulous care and family care, but such a life allows the child develop a wayward habits, the bad habits of life will the child buried next great risk. experts suggest that children may wish to try the cold willful, which makes the child due to lack of attention of Automatic convergence temper.
five dollars granted setback - the failure to give children a chance to experience. s
Seoul American music educator card. Sandburg said: talent. and in the face of adversity and tempered by setbacks before the children grow up more competitive to survive. kinds of frustration the child's psychological education to enhance the capacity of a lot of good. s
six, let go of dollars - to develop their own kids to do their own thing. s
do not do anything for the child, parents should try to let go hand, let the children do it independently, the first may be done, but later will be done faster and better. Do not be arranged parents, open hand to do things for the children to create opportunities and platforms, the children can have self-reliance Parents will be less hassle. s
seven, conniving count - let the children in the mad, ; behavior, and took the opportunity to tap the potential and foster interest in, maybe your child is another, To reward and punishment, the child should be given incentives to do good, but when the child does something wrong must not be tolerated, even if only a small error should be appropriate punishment, so that children can face up to their mistakes, correct them in time, so trapped in the wrong in Vietnam deeper. s
nine, cooling dollars - to own children, Once signs of own children, parents should use let the children feel their parents unconditional love. s
children may not smart enough, there may be many shortcomings, but as a parent, you must not prejudice the child, humiliation, or despise their own children. the child must be inclusive, be confidence in what you will get a child. s
XI model account - parents give their children a good first teacher. s
Parents are the role models, children mirror their parents, parents will affect the demeanor of the child. so parents should be strict law has, always made everything right in their own actions set an example for their children and guide the healthy growth of children. s
second, to encourage total - to the children and progressive forces . s
children can easily lose confidence in ourselves, it is easy to give up work because of the difficulties, therefore, parents should continue to encourage children to give them the courage to move forward and win the confidence of parents that their children will be able to take look forward to correct shortcomings and progress. s
XIII, listen dollars - seriously understand children's feelings. s
each child has their own feelings, parents must be patient to listen, to truly understand a child's thoughts, feelings, can the children physical and psychological problems, make changes in a timely and meticulous processing. With this foundation to good communication between parents and children, to establish a good and harmonious parent-child relationship. s
fourth , Enhancement Award - the sound of children praising progress in. s
educators feel that teaching children, the reward is a more effective way than punishment. Therefore, they suggested that instead of punishment with reward correct the error, with certain advantage instead of negative defects, such damage can be avoided and the child, but also enables the children to achieve better progress. s
fifth, Enlightenment terms - the child consciously clever tips right course. s
ramble preaching, everything arranged for the child's parents are not like most children, the wise parent will act in the children encounter problems or errors, provide little tips guide to help children resolve their problems. so that children understand the truth, Parents also achieved the purpose of education.
sixteen, virtual dollars - to children that feeling, you'll be a genius; have the feeling of a hero, you will become a hero. sense of child found a good boy, he will become a good boy. ; sense of self, he would gradually error. some not, some intentional. If the child is not committed very serious nature of the fault, then the parents may wish to give to tolerance, understanding, so that the children will not only blame themselves in guilt to correct errors in the more seriously, but also allows children to form good tolerant attitude. s
eighth, admonished total - let the children know the error, turn over a new leaf. s
child is the child, will continue to lead to various problems and errors, some errors can be tolerant, some errors are not tolerated. Must the children's reasonable and effective criticism, in order to ensure that children no longer make that mistake, even the most generous parents, do not let this absence of reasonable discipline. s
ten nine, total influence - good in life for children affected. s
family is the child's first classroom, home education for their children is profound and immense. Therefore, if the parents in the family life, through the story-telling, etc., develop healthy hobbies children and mold their children's fun, good character, then you can let the children grow up healthier. s
twenty to divert dollars - to children by the opposition into cooperation. s < br> The success of flood control, is with you br> The reason why there is conflict between parents and contradictions, often because of parental lack of respect, so that children harbor fear, resentment, opened the distance between us. In fact, children need to respect, then they will become the parents of most children welcome . s
XXII, on the other terms - to achieve good communication with their children. s
the premise of good communication with their children, that is, equal treatment of children, do children's friends. so that the child will be willing to tell you the truth, parents can help children get rid of the problems in time. If the parents are always parents stand arrayed, to require children to obey their authoritarian, then the door of communication between parents and children will gradually close. s
II XIII, total offense and defense - give the child playing the , anger, might as well give the child ahead of time playing the - to help children overcome Jiaoshe of the gas. s
children are home now extravagant habits, spend too recklessly, not know the value items, this habit of the child is extremely detrimental to the healthy growth, so parents should educate their children confidently thrift, to help children develop the habit of thrift, which is the true love of children . s
XXV, with education dollars - to teach a boy in participation. s
If the parents can participate in children's lives, spend more time with their children to do something, then not only can enhance parent-child love, You can also inspire children, while parents can know more about their children, which in the development of the child's potential talent among children is very important.
XXVI, anti-micro meter - do not let small problems become big kids problem. s
life, children and sometimes there will be some minor defects, such as overbearing, rude, lazy, etc., the parents should pay attention this time, the problem is small, but we have strict control as a preventive measure, otherwise these small problems will become a big problem, when parents want their children to correct again, not so easy. Do not tolerate the child's small problems, strict control is also of love. s
XXVII, peace and total - children and teachers mutually inclusive. s
between teachers and students will also be some friction and misunderstanding, then the parents should act as mutual tolerance. let the children still respect the teacher, the teacher continued to care for children. s
xxviii, established accounting regulations - with reasonable rules to let children learn self-control. s
poor self-control children and parents ; Do not do that behavior. s
twenty-nine, reducing the burden dollars - do not give children too much pressure. s
life, there are more and more children mental disorders, and child psychologists point out that excessive pressure is lead to psychological problems the child is an important reason for reducing the burden to the children has become a priority. In order for the healthy growth of children, parents please do not give children too much pressure. s
thirty, to stimulate total - with the stimulation of children way to make children love learning. s
educate our children to find on the way, when persuasion, preaching else fails, parents may wish to inspire children to try this trick of dollars. use of the child's ambition, jealousy and even rebellious heart to deliberately stimulating children so that they do not love to learn to become active by the study. s
XXXI, acceptable terms - so that children like and accept themselves. s
If the child can not fully understand myself, to see their strengths, and that there will be many problems. such as low self-esteem, envy and so on. Therefore, the parents let the children see their own merits, let the kids enjoy themselves, so that the children the confidence to face life. s
three second, with the tolerance meter - gently correct the child's ; type of education will only make the child go to the extreme, so that parents can only way. s
xxxiii, Lai Yong dollars - to develop children to explore bold and courageous personality. s
life, often those who dare to explore, courageous people who can achieve excellence, be happy. So , parents to their children's future sake, do not always over-protective of children, do not over-emphasize the development of > xxxiv, probation terms - to true love for her child's mind. s
education children, not just preach, scold, persuade, and sometimes must take the emotion of, so as to shake the child's mind, to education the best results. However, to influence the child must be sincere, otherwise the effect will be greatly reduced. s
xxxv equal terms - to develop an open mind children. s
most of today's kids only one child, they become culture they share, cooperative spirit, open mind and gradually cultivate a child. s
XXXVI, hard grinding dollars - to develop the child's will and perseverance. s
today's children face a full of competitive society, and many children are living is too easy, often lack the courage to overcome difficulties. Therefore, the wise parents should let children experience more than a number of difficulties and hardships of tough training, to develop their indomitable will and perseverance, so that they can win the competition in the future. s
Huanhuan Showtime on December 9 to join the league, and became the first promoted to a small junior members. Huanhuan Showtime since 2004 (five half) became proud to be a school Min Young Pioneers before joining the group and their organization is a glorious dream, I did not expect to join the league quite twists and turns.
in the sixth grade, Shin Huanhuan activists were elected to join the league, but the piece of self-activists to secondary schools to count, and this term should also re-reporting, self-reported by the class students to vote, their votes as both the second and fourth classes, a class ten activists, members, and students with the group Theoretical Examination of the participating courses. I remember back with them on Sunday night, the Youth League issued the relevant material, full of confidence that all will be the back.
12 月 8 on the night before I received her class work Zhang phone call made, tell me the pass year the list published in the Communist Youth League is not Huanhuan, that Huanhuan theory exams because Juvenile did not join the league by the, so I am concerned about the child's emotions. home to see Huanhuan first thing to know that she cried, I cried to see it, I say a series on the road to good soothing words such as The result is comfort did not play much role, almost I say a sentence she can say the next sentence, in the end still feel sad because they can not join the league, and constantly remember her answer examination paper, I definitely feel that every time she adds a layer of memory negation of their own. From the knowledge of two children Juvenile comparative analysis of responses, Huan Huan is not much difference between Bi Xinxin it! (Showtime is the school announced a large list of classes the highest score) so I called hoping to find a senior director check the child's papers. Huanhuan before going to sleep that night is still very sad, I'd not worry about whether she can go into the group, mainly worried that her negative suggestion would make her lose confidence (she was a stronger and sensitive child ).
12 月 9 morning I again Zhang received a phone call telling me that she personally went to check papers, and was informed Huanhuan not pass the test turned out to be the highest score in the real class (even higher than my sister four points), the Communist Youth League because the teacher said the two names on the time-sharing as a person, so did not give Huanhuan on the results. Huanhuan can and sister with a piece of self, but has announced a large list can not be rewritten the. Huanhuan Showtime is look at the way the joy, Huanhuan said, look, I have dared to top happy. and the day before yesterday, proud mother would dare say things have not. and this is an active hands, so very proud of Showtime.
piece of self-storm is over, though several bruises in the process Huanhuan wronged children, but I think they are a useful process on the education process , it is more conducive to help her build confidence, realize that even very good people who may be unfair assessment, so that they learn to believe in themselves. At the same time to resolve this matter was particularly grateful to Zhang and Zhang if not help her find the test paper, she may be hugely magnified his shortcomings, completely deny their own judgments. also special thanks to Zhang's insistence, if she had insisted to the teacher at the Youth League to find papers, Huanhuan the injustice of things into one.
Today is the girls participated in the course of the semester last Wang Xiao, Wang Xiao home to report their test scores, math and English did not test, language test scores both her first and second, respectively, can be considered for this six week course of study drew a perfect end.
baby daughter, who is the pride of her mother.
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when the snow is not too much cold, a person to South Lake to see snow.
South Lake
lonely lonely lonely tree
lonely road section chair

Article chair sat a long time I look at South Lake in Changchun City, the iconic
- South Lake four booths
I got lost in the South Lake
encountered a pair of elderly people with children, followed, cold day, they must be to export
scarf I wear today is the 11 classes of students sent me the Teacher's Day gift, the students must choose a gift because I'm wearing a T shirt with the color of this was carefully selected, the children's heart I always knew that, thank the children, if you do not block snow, wind scarf, I think I can not persist more than two hours walking in snow. thanks for my pictures of passers-by.
watch the performances:
your hard someone read it to understand (with a rather makes it sound): A Ningnu with the hard edge Field photographs of the father
Little Miss candidates are:
hidden heart:
best male singing:
best female lead singer:
optimal command:
LOVE 11
I see is you (my father with a rather makes it sound)
a fan of the teachers group (grade teacher at this time is Chorus):
winning friends!
following image from the network:
birch is hosting a radio show:
11 classes of students
Best Speech Award for excellent performance (Li Yi Fei, and Wentao teachers, Wentao Gao Jun Hang on behalf of the teacher award):
Liu Chenglin Chorus Award on behalf of the students receive:
Birch announced that 11 classes have been consolidated Grand Prize:
seems to be a creative award (to patronize the children look happy, I could not)
Wang Sheng Road, Grand Prize on behalf of the students receive Organization:
only regret , the original design of a letter by Li Zelang chanting of the opening, because the music released too early and missed.
Special thanks to Li Yao father, Li Yi Fei father, the great father, a Ning Gong father, Liu Chenglin mother, the mother of cold Yueqi and high-Jun Liu Hang mother and accompanied his father's colleagues, to help take care of clothing, placed props, photo camera, but also clothing, because of the support of parents, and students in mind I feel very at ease.
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with fifteen minutes to make up a missed speech five years ago, eleven months of experience with eleven
children grow up in class the afternoon of the school moved
a trainee teacher training sessions, according to the conference, my speech first, afraid of other people waiting for me to waste time, so arrive early to campus freedom, and hope to complete the task as soon as possible to accompany students back to the game tomorrow choir rehearsal. to the free campus leaders said after the Lufthansa flight teachers wish to speak, because always on 11 classes children are particularly at ease, he readily agreed, and peace of mind to do the teacher's students to fly Lufthansa.
and student teacher have to do with listening to the report, could not help but think of fifteen years ago in July, we have eleven sessions of the University 95 Graduates of a long table surrounded by navy secretary (at that time seems to be Communist Youth League secretary) to do class work training scenarios, the Navy secretary about the specific content can not remember, just remember I think his statement is the class teacher a passion to inspire the work of the teaching profession, and therefore like the job.
Lufthansa will fly the teacher talked about setbacks in class, put some animation, the central idea is consider themselves the most unfortunate, it really becomes the most unfortunate, speak to this task, because for me, and understand the class teacher to share the happiness brought me a very happy thing.
about fifteen years ago this season, my class has just started, I was elected was two first grade school work to do the exchange, I remember that the General Assembly is Caixiao Chang presided over the first two statements because the teachers speak out, I shall be canceled, and I almost relieved to miss that chance to speak. I did not expect the opportunity of a mistake is fifteen years, if not timely conclusion Lufthansa flight teacher, and perhaps regret the escape longer. In fact, speaking as enthusiastically accepted the task, I am serious prepared a detailed speech, did not expect the beginning of time just to speak my music teacher says I will urge the end of time, for fear of a young teacher politely insist on hearing the anxiety, but also because students weigh remember, I temporarily compressed, with ten five minutes to the end of my speech.
fifteen minutes, and not just to make up five years ago, regret and, more importantly, I especially hope that every teacher can learn to become a teacher to experience happiness at work every day. in most of the time we work, if the job creation process completely into the process of waiting for happiness, then the process is too long. I work fifteen years, nearly four years doing almost all complaints class teacher, experienced fatigue from fresh to used to tired to adhere to the process, until now, I learned to experience pleasure in work and happiness, as I said a brief statement of by the new class to reduce the time a little bit of happiness is my honor. did not encounter any of 11 classes a student, I'm not sure they're still rehearsing, playing a few students did not pass the phone to ask a few head-over 12 school classmates say that they would have had. thought junctions are often turned his daughters want to light up at home, when passing the house had wanted to go home and look at four mobile phones Liu told us that they rehearsed in the ground level cafeteria entrance of SMS, he specifically told me think of the rehearsal Location is actually afraid I can not find them, can not stand it uncertain whether students in the case of home to home, so he stepped on high heels, carrying his laptop and walked back to the Qinghua campus.
a Jinjiao Men is the class to see lights out, to see just a few underground dining hall to play badminton, and steps are empty, my heart was really very happy because it had to cold for them in the context of practice and some distressed, and heart and some did not accompany them because of the composition of rehearsal and ashamed, the students go home on time Daorang some of my psychological balance, which can also be a clear conscience and I am home with her daughter who had.
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